The “or” title of this post came from my visit to a local grocery chain where one day a fake haired, fake boobs, fake human BITCH pushed a nice little old lady because she was trying to find the olives her husband liked – and she was taking a bit of time to do so.
This fake human was in a hurry, on her cell phone, and evidently far too important to be kept waiting – and she SHOVED an elderly woman!
When I helped the woman regain her balance (and yelled at the fake human) the nice old lady looked at me and smiled, and said, “That’s ok, son. Sometimes people are just no damn good”. While it startled me to hear it come from her – I also realized it was a truism. We see it in athletes, TV personalities, and many others.
Even in bloggers – ESPECIALLY in bloggers.
A recent case is when a mother lost a two year old child to drowning and reached out to her friends – her network. Her support structure. Those friends happened to be on Twitter, and this grieving mother was chastised and second-guessed by people that are “just no damned good”. At a time this woman needed friends and support more than ever a small army of (mostly, from what I can tell), “I am a better mommy blogger than you are” fake humans attacked her and accused her of horrendous things. Like causing her child’s death because she was on Twitter and not watching the child.
I’m sorry. You can stick your “better than me” attitude right up your (choose an orifice).
A mother lost a child. And “better” mothers were mean, and cruel and uncaring.
Sometimes people are just no damned good.
And shame on them for it.